Yeah, that pretty much sums it up. All social networks curate the feeds that user's see in some way. All you can do is give them as much information as you can to let their algorithms make the best decision about how to show it.
I hope that all helps, but if you need anything else, just let us know. Also, we hope to see you as an active subscriber again soon. JFBConnect v6.2 was recently released with lots of new features and big performance improvements. If you didn't see our preview blog post, before the release, check it out:
www.sourcecoast.com/blog/jfbconnect-v6-2...formance-and-widgets
Thanks,
Alex