Emanuel,
Absolutely, feel free to continue this thread
The next release will be the 4.2.2 release, coming out next week. It will be a minor bug-fix release only, with no big features. It won't be until the 4.3 release (this summer) that we will have a simple installation/upgrade methods implemented. We realize it's not hassle-free right now, and we will fix that soon.
For the Updates Manager area of Joomla, if you hit the "Purge Cache" button and then "Find Updates", that should make Joomla re-verify the currently installed versus available versions. If not, please let us know.
Finally, for the JFBCRecommendations module, we'll look into why that's happening and if we possibly released the wrong version. If so, I'll let you know.
Thanks, and any feedback or other suggestions for improvement in all areas of JFBConnect are always welcome. We definitely know the installation procedure could use some help, and have plans on how to do so, but if you have suggestions, we're all ears!
Thanks,
Alex