Paul,
It seems there's a bit of confusion reading through your posts. At the beginning, you're talking about Open Graph Actions. These are 'events' that you create on your site that a user can trigger.. reading an article, uploading a photo, joining a group, etc. In addition to Open Graph *Actions*, there's simply Open Graph tags, which describe your pages to Facebook. Those tags are used by a variety of things in Facebook, not limited to just OG Actions. Things like the Like button or Comment box will also use the Open Graph tags when a user Like's or Comments on a page from your site.
From your last post, it sounds like you simply want a Like button on your content. For that, you should enable the Open Graph plugins we have, but you don't need to create "Actions" as described in our long
Open Graph Actions in Facebook
guide. You simply need to add the Like button to your content, which can be done using the Content Plugin.
So, it sounds like you've already successfully added the Like button and hopefully have the Open Graph tags setup. Now, you're just getting the strange behavior when clicking the Like button (the confirm button and having to click it again). That is likely because your site is new. Facebook can show the "Confirm" link if it thinks the page being Like'd is suspicious (malware, spammy, porn, etc). Also, if your site is new, it may not know enough about your content and so it shows the Confirm button then as well.
What you can do is run your pages through the
Facebook Debug Tool
. That has Facebook scan your page and will point out any problems. As FB sees more content, they can properly categorize if it's 'bad' or not, and the 'Confirm' link should go away.
Finally, if you're just using the Like or Comment features of JFBConnect (not Actions), you don't need to use a Test User. You can do all the testing with your real Facebook account. You only need to use a test user for Actions, since they have to be approved by Facebook.
I hope that all makes sense and better explains things,
Alex