Actually, I found the underlying URL with a little sleuthing. Unfortunately, on the 'raw' page, I just tried to login right now and just got the message:
If difficulties persist, please contact the System Administrator of this site and report the error below.
6 name lookup timed out
That was with Chrome.
I would keep the Verify SSL setting disabled while testing as well as it's one less link in the chain.
The other thing to try is reduce or disable the amount of information you're importing about the user. We try to only make 1 request to Facebook for all the profile info, but there's a few other things we need to lookup, so it can be 3-5 (or so) requests on login. It's possible any of those can hit the timeout limit, so reducing those will reduce the chance of a problem.
If that helps, it will (again) narrow things down, but isn't really a solution. If anything, it's just masking the underlying issue again.
Hope that gets some more movement going,
Alex