Logim messages and logout mass up

After watching your video, it seems that most of the issues are probably caused by JomSocial's configuration, not JFBConnect.

1) 0:20 - This login message is not coming from JFBConnect. Possibly from Joomla user's plugin or JomSocial.
2) 1:07 - Logout not redirecting properly. Please check the settings in the JomSocial redirect plugin and also try disabling SEF on your page. Either way, the logout button and menu links are not from JFBConnect.
3) 1:15 - Again, these messages aren't coming from JFBConnect.
4) 1:40 - I am not understanding how you think these values are relating to your problem. These two settings will allow JFBConnect to redirect when using the Social Login buttons only. In your example, you are not doing this. You are logging in via JomSocial with Joomla credentials. This leads me to suggest #2 again.

I suspect if you disable all of JFBConnect's plugins (system, user and authentication), you will still encounter the same problems.

-Melissa