How Do I Create a jEvents Oblect?

Sorry for the delay to this. I just responded to your other post about the review process from Facebook. It's possible that you may need to go through the review process since it does sound like you want the general audience to be able to post.

With that said, a lot of what you're looking to do is not something we currently support. JFBConnect doesn't have auto-posting features for pushing contents to social networks automatically as they are posted.

I sort of solved this by creating an Events tab in Facebook through the JFBConnect Facebook Configuration in Autotune

Are you showing this within your Facebook Page somewhere? The URL you set for the Page Tab URL is what will be displayed within Facebook. So, if it displays those events on your site, they should show in your Page. Unfortunately, the other networks don't have an easy way to show a URL from your site in an easy way.

As to your specific questions:

We use jEvents as our calendar app, and what we want to have happen is that as authorized people post to our calendar, those events will auto post to our Facebook and twitter pages at the same time.

As noted, we don't have a way to auto-post content. This would have to be done 'manually' using the social toolbar.

We plan to be a hub for many organizations. We also want people to be able to post events to their own Facebook and twitter pages as well, though we don't want that process to be an auto post process, we want that to be an affirmation process.

The best way I'd recommend to do this is simply with the Facebook Like/Share and Twitter Share buttons. This will share the URL along with the Open Graph tags and Twitter descriptions back to the user's feed. It's really the best way to do sharing of content as that's what the social networks *want* you to use. I wouldn't try to come up with other solutions for this unless you have very specific needs and reasons too.

I hope that helps answer your questions,
Alex