There are two issues:
1. The tags from the preview are being gathered from your homepage and not the link
dia-seminare.org/dia-events/detail-ansic...mitten-im-leben.html - this is because the page has an og:url tag and also a rel="canonical" tag, but they are set to different values. Facebook will follow the canonical URL, which is why it's gathering the incorrect Open Graph tag values. JFBConnect is not setting this canonical value. Some other extension, your template or Joomla itself is setting it. You will have to narrow that down and figure out why it is the incorrect value. Once you resolve this, make sure to re-scrape your page for the preview to be updated.
2. Once you resolve issue #1, there are two og:image tags being inserted on
dia-seminare.org/dia-events/detail-ansic...mitten-im-leben.html
www.dia-seminare.org/images/konferenz2015.png
www.dia-seminare.org/images/dia_logo.png
Using our site
socialdebug.com I see that the images are smaller than the recommended sizes. Because there are two images and both are not the correct size, Facebook will pick the best image to use, at it's own discretion. If you turn on the 'Enable Social Toolbar' setting in JFBConnect and log in on your front-end using a super-admin, you can use the Social Meta button on our toolbar. The latest version of JFBConnect should give you details for where each og:image is getting set. My suggestions are 1) make the images bigger and 2) narrow it down to one og:image per page so that you have more of a guarantee which image is chosen.
This should help get you started to fix the issue, but please let us know if you still have problems after addressing the above two issues.
-Melissa