There's a few different ways you could change the things your asking about above, but it depends on a few different things. Can you tell me:
* Do you need confirmation for Facebook registered users, or do you want to bypass that altogether?
* How do you have Gavick's Facebook integration configured?
* What version of JomSocial are you using?
* What version of JFBConnect are you using?
Finally, please post from the account you subscribed to JFBConnect from. Priority support is for active subscribers only.
Thanks,
Alex