We are looking into a different way of requesting that permission (basically, only on the first registration instead of on every login). We also submitted a bug report asking for more clarity on this issue, since the fb:login-button doesn't have any built-in method to prevent the re-requesting of the publish_actions permission.. it will request them on every login automatically. Feel free to click the "Does this repro describe your issue" link to give the question/bug report more visibility:
developers.facebook.com/bugs/483000485080119
I don't know when this change would be incorporated into JFBConnect. The 5.0 release is progressing well and will be out later this month. My guess is that it would be in a 5.0.1 update to that release.
Hope that helps,
Alex