Larry,
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As for the posts, Facebook has a lot of leeway as for how it will post things. There's a lot of 'stuff' going on behind the scenes where they decide how it should be posted. A Like doesn't guarantee a full post to a user's wall; it simply depends on how much that post has already been Like'd, how often the user hide's Like posts on their wall, and a ton of other factors. We're working on ways that a user can share a full post (with a comment) to their wall, and we can help you implement something like that now if you'd like.. however, that's more hurdles for a user to go through instead of a simple Like click.. there's click, popup, add a comment, click "Post" again. But, after those steps, Facebook realizes the user really wants that on his wall. Hope that part makes sense.
As for how to best set things up to try to make the Like posts go to a user's wall, make sure you have a good title, description and image for every page that you have a Like button on (see my post above on how to add the SCOpenGraph tags). These are set with the Open Graph tags of JFBConnect, but we'll try to 'guess' them for most pages automatically. You can use the URL Debug Tool to see what Facebook sees about your page. If the info there is wrong, missing, or looks 'spammy', that would lessen the chance for a Like to go to a Wall.
Facebook URL Debug Tool
Let us know if you need more info, and good luck!
Alex