Coolios,
It's impossible to be 100% certain on this, but the most likely reason that only the user that posted the comments can see them is because your site is completely restricted. Facebook needs to be able to scan the pages that comments are posted on so that it can determine that the site isn't spammy, malware, or other 'bad' material. Once they've scanned a few pages from your site, they'll mark the whole thing as 'good', and things should act just fine then. Until your site (or parts of it) are public though, you'll be in a very restricted mode from Facebook.
Hope that makes sense, but let us know if you have any other questions.
Thanks,
Alex