Login button disappears and modules do not work

Colin,
I removed your key from above. Not a big deal, but the idea is to keep it secret.

As for your issue, my guess is that you have the System - Cache plugin enabled. This plugin needs to be ordered highest/last to work properly with JFBConnect (and other plugins) as the Cache plugin takes a snapshot of the page and serves it up on subsequent requests. If the JFBConnect plugin hasn't loaded to "do it's thing", the snapshot won't contain everything it needs.

If that's not the problem, let us know, but I think it is

As for the key, that shouldn't be an issue at all.. however, I'm not sure why the border_color parameter isn't equal to anything. Is that the module you're using or are you directly adding the {JFBCFan ...} tag to the page?

Thanks,
Alex

Colin,
The og:image tag looks correct on your page. The issue is likely that Facebook scans for updated Open Graph tags every 24-72 hours. If you just set the image tag and immediately Like'd it, it won't use that new setting. To refresh Facebook's cache right away, or to simply see what Facebook will see when it rescans, you can use their Debug tool on any pages you think may not be right:
developers.facebook.com/tools/debug

Hope that helps, but keep us posted on what you find,
Alex

Colin,
For the Like or Send button, the Open Graph image tag should be used. I'm seeing the behavior you describe by clicking into one of your articles and hitting send. I'm honestly not sure why this is occurring though. Can you confirm if this seems to be happening on all pages or not?

The linter/debug tool shows the right image. If you look at the docs for the send button, it explicitly says it uses the image tag. Not sure why it's not doing that for you:
developers.facebook.com/docs/reference/plugins/send/

We'll keep investigating, but if you come up with anything, or narrow it down further, definitely let us know.

Thanks,
Alex