Documentation and Deployment Checklist and Verification

Paul,
We don't have a deployment checklist or verification document. There are hundreds of features in our extensions, and they interact with each site, template, and other extension differently, so there's not a one-size-fits-all configuration for everyone.

Some documents I can recommend are:
* JFBConnect Configuration Guide
* JomSocial / JFBConnect setup guide

I hope that helps, but if you have any specific questions, just let me know.

Thanks,
Alex