Thanks for the help!
I swapped out the helper and xml into my module, and it seems that I am having the same issue still.
Whenever you actually click "connect with facebook" , you are not redirected (perfect).
However, whenever you are logged into facebook, even if you closed the FF tab that facebook was in without logging out, then click any link to a page on my site (for example from a newsletter), you are still redirected to the home page! This basically makes my newsletter worthless
Try it yourself!
First, make sure you are logged into facebook to an account already connected to my site (sourcecoast, I think you made one already). Then, click this link, for example:
[url:3kfx02r2]http://www.rugbyunited.com/index.php?option=com_jreviews&Itemid=130[/url:3kfx02r2]
You will be redirected to the homepage and told that you were logged back in with your facebook credentials. In the world of never logging off on your own computer (why should you?) this is a big issue.
This also happens whenever your session expires on my site. Say you go to my site, navigate around for a bit, then go eat dinner. When you come back, you click any link (except "home" for illustration), and you are redirected to the home page, saying that you were logged back in with your facebook credentials.
Any ideas? Thanks sourcecoast!