Bob,
I just sent you an email with a plugin to push status updates from JomSocial to Facebook using JFBConnect.
We'll likely be releasing this with the 4.0 release later this month, but would love your feedback or suggestions before then. We're planning a few feature additions in the future which we have scoped out, for adding posts to the user's wall for things like new event creation or group activities in JomSocial, but for now, it's just status updates.
One of the reasons for the delay was making sure the privacy settings from JomSocial work... right now, we only post it if it's a public post in JomSocial. Anything more restrictive doesn't get posted to Facebook.
From here, the good news is that further status updates should be pretty easy for different things. There's hooks from JomSocial for most things that get posted to the wall, but it still takes a bit of effort as they don't pass all the information we always want.. but we're handy
Hope this helps, and again, very sorry for the lengthy delay.
Thanks,
Alex