Ronen,
Thank you much for the review, we definitely do appreciate it.
We've investigated, and actually had surveys for, a separated component + social widget package, but it hasn't had a lot of great feedback. We also have a lot of tight integration between the component and the widgets, which is what makes JFBConnect even more powerful. Additionally, since the Facebook Javascript library should only be loaded once on a page, there's less support work that's required if we do it all, instead of our component plus a (possible) mish-mash of other extensions.
Speaking of which, on your page, for the Fanbox in the bottom right, that module is actually reloading the Facebook Javascript library again. While I don't think it's causing any conflicts, it can slow down the page load (it's an extra 112k file, plus whatever it includes and the JS processing required for it). You may want to try switching to the JFBCFan module in our bundle for a small speed boost on the page.
Anyways, best of luck to you. We definitely appreciate your feedback, and will take it into consideration as things are always evolving with JFBConnect and our extensions.
Thanks,
Alex