Tyrone,
There's no way to control where the links from the Facebook Fan box link to. As far as I know, Facebook will automatically detect a mobile environment when the user goes to
www.facebook.com and redirect the user to m.facebook.com when appropriate. If you click the "Use Full Site" link in the mobile view, it will break the user out of the mobile view permanently.
I hope that helps explain, and sorry I don't know of any way to do what you're looking for.
Should you need anything else, just let me know.
Thanks,
Alex