Sorry for the delay. We haven't been on a full staff over the holidays, so mainly focusing on critical issues over the period.
We're not sure why you aren't seeing updates if you have that field approved in FB. I just registered on your site, and got "Just joined <!-- m --><a class="postlink" href="
www.thataudioguy.net">
www.thataudioguy.net" on my wall. Do you ever get any update?
Facebook is smart enough not to post the same status to a wall repeatedly, so if your last post was "Just joined <!-- m --><a class="postlink" href="
www.thataudioguy.net">
www.thataudioguy.net", and you try to register again, it won't get re-posted.
Have you tried with different Facebook accounts? We're stumped as to why it won't post for you when you've given permission. We're hoping to have some updates on re-requesting permission after the initial join soon.