Dag,
Sorry for the confusion. I mis-understood your post, obviously.
I'm not seeing anything at all wrong with the page now. The other Javascript inclusion is gone, and there shouldn't be anything preventing the Moderate button from showing. Additionally, the Facebook URL debug tool shows no real problems:
developers.facebook.com/tools/debug/og/o...alt-ga-til-barnehjem
Facebook does cache page information for a few days. If you just removed the other Fan module, that could be the problem. The Debug tool above should clear the cache, so try again.. but you also may need to wait a day or so on all the other pages.
If that doesn't work, also try the Comment Moderation tool link again (
developers.facebook.com/tools/comments) and see if that has any results. Again though, Facebook is likely simply confused due to the duplicate Javascript, and hopefully will simply clear itself up shortly.
Finally, for the comment email, I can't say I know the cause of that either. It sounds like it did work at some point.. do you remember if there were any changes that happened around the time it stopped working? Check the email you have setup in the admin area, and try to only use one address (for now). If you need to use multiple addresses, use a comma to separate them, not a newline. Also, obviously, check your spam folder.
If none of that works, please try with a different template (temporarily) to see if that helps. Your current template has a lot of Javascript, which shouldn't be a problem, but a more basic template may help narrow down the possible causes.
Thanks,
Alex