The behavior you describe is the expected behavior. JFBConnect currently doesn't have the ability to 'not' create a new user, though we can likely help you implement that if you'd like.
So, I'm assuming you want the Login With Facebook functionality to only be for users to login to your site, but not for creating new users. Right now, the new users that are created with JFBConnect won't be able to login until approved by an administrator. You simply don't want them created at all, correct?
Thanks for the info, and we'll see what we can do to help.