I found your purchase. It was under a different Facebook account with very similar email address. I'll be sending an email to both accounts to see if you'd like me to transfer the purchase.
As for your questions:
Affiliate ID - No. Leave it blank. This only is used if you set the "Show Powered By Link" to enabled. The affiliate program lets you earn money from people that click links to our site. You can learn more about the affiliate program here:
www.sourcecoast.com/affiliates
For the error you have, please download the "JFBCSocial System Plugin", install it and enable it. That should properly display the Share button. The JFBC Social plugin can be found in the download area with the filename:
plg_system_jfbcsocial_j1.5_v3.xxx.tar.gz (xxx is the version number)
Please let us know if this fixes your problem.