Can't get fbconnect to work

You're site is using JomSocial's Facebook Connect integration, not JFBConnect. If you are using JFBConnect, you should disable JomSocial's FB capabilities by removing your API/Secret key from their component. Then, enable the JFBCLogin module and test from there.

JomSocial's Facebook Connect and JFBConnect do not play well together, you can only use one.

You actually can have 2 login modules on the same page, from 2 separate components. We do so on our demonstration page for JomSocial and JFBConnect:
facebook.sourcecoast.com/jomsocial-home-page

You can configure JFBCLogin for very good integration with your site and still use a different registration/login module. In the JFBCLogin module, you can hide the Login portion of the module altogether, and just show the "Connect with Facebook" button. Then, you can place this module in any position on your site to integrate it into your look and feel however you like.

It looks as though you're already on this path with some changes I'm seeing on your site where it looks like you've disabled the login portion and are placing the button in the "mainbottom" module position.

Let us know if you're still running into issues or need other help!

For positioning the module where you want it, we'd recommend Modules Anywhere. This is a great extension which lets you place modules within other components or templates anywhere on your page. If there's text you'd like removed from the "Logout" view, we can certainly help you to customize that to your needs.

As for integration, JFBConnect is intended to inter-operate with multiple different large components, including JomSocial. We are a different component with different features from JomSocial's implementation, which is why we are still used on many JomSocial sites, even though they have an integrated solution. We allow for selecting which profile fields are imported from Facebook, posting to the user's Facebook wall on login and registration, silent registration, the ability to post to wall from other components by adding a few lines of code, and more. In addition, we have the JFBCInvite module (included) and there is the FB Comments plugin available from a 3rd party on CMS Market.

Hope that helps clarify some of the benefits.

When I look at the HTML on your page, there should be a reference to an all.js Javascript file that we include from Facebook's servers. I can't find it.

You look to have a minification script running (to compress the page). Try disabling it temporarily to see if things start working correctly.

If the Javascript is not included properly, that would cause problems. If it's being bunched together with a lot of other scripts (which minification does a lot of the time), that could also be the problem.